lesbian wife in phoenix
Jul. 2nd, 2007 02:33 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Whenever I'm somewhere as J's Wife--Aggie events and family stuff--I'm struck with the overwhelming urge to proclaim my lesbian past and bi present. I haven't figure out my motivation. Am I trying to prove what a stud he is? That even though he's the boring one in the family (and thank goodness), he's not that boring? That even though I seem all sweet and innocent, I'm not that boring either? That gay people aren't scary? Am I rebelling against the traditional Wife role? Maybe all of the above. So his step-sibs and the Aggies know now, but not the parents.
I don't have such a strong need to come out anywhere else, but I guess everybody else in my world already knows.
Also? I don't care how dry the heat is, 113 degrees is still damn hot.
I don't have such a strong need to come out anywhere else, but I guess everybody else in my world already knows.
Also? I don't care how dry the heat is, 113 degrees is still damn hot.
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Date: 2007-07-02 10:37 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-07-03 12:25 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-07-02 11:25 pm (UTC)And yes, 113 is damn hot.
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Date: 2007-07-03 06:37 pm (UTC)I think you feel compelled to do it just to desperately fight back against the overwhelming traditionalism in the room whenever there's an event.
Plus all the other stuff, but that too.