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Whenever I'm somewhere as J's Wife--Aggie events and family stuff--I'm struck with the overwhelming urge to proclaim my lesbian past and bi present. I haven't figure out my motivation. Am I trying to prove what a stud he is? That even though he's the boring one in the family (and thank goodness), he's not that boring? That even though I seem all sweet and innocent, I'm not that boring either? That gay people aren't scary? Am I rebelling against the traditional Wife role? Maybe all of the above. So his step-sibs and the Aggies know now, but not the parents.

I don't have such a strong need to come out anywhere else, but I guess everybody else in my world already knows.


Also? I don't care how dry the heat is, 113 degrees is still damn hot.